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Post by Joana Hernandez on Apr 9, 2020 18:09:27 GMT
I believe everyone has the right to keep secrets, even though they might hurt you or others most people cant really help it. whether its a small secret or a big one that's your choice. What secrets show is the type of person you are, your morals. I think secrets can destroy you over time but I believe that's part of being human. I think we can manage in our minds but society has taught us to tell the truth not for others but for yourself so that you don't feel guilt. We think its important to tell the truth to others as most people care about what others think of them or people cant handle their mistakes and need acceptance from others.
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Post by Eric Still on Apr 9, 2020 18:09:51 GMT
I feel like secrets can be kept if someone wanted to, i do believe that people should share them if the truth needs to come out. Secrets do destroy people over time, if someone is holding a secret in it could drive them crazy and they would want to get something off their chest. we can privitly manage stuff in our minds, although sometimes we cant if something that we are not proud of starts to take over youyre mind. we care so much becuase when lying people often feel guilty and or upset, to relieve this guilt or to not evenm have it in the first place we tell the truth. if someone does not feel guilty they may keep a secret or lie
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Post by Corina Johnson on Apr 9, 2020 18:14:19 GMT
Small secrets can be painful to hold onto but not nearly as damaging as keeping big secrets. Some secrets should be kept if they are going to destroy another person, however, that doesn't mean they can't be shared at all. You don't always have to confess a secret to the person you will hurt with that secret. Secrets can definitely destroy you because you hold onto the guilt and carry that burden all by yourself. It is better to be honest when possible, even if you are going to hurt someone. It is possible to manage secrets alone but it can be very damaging mentally to constantly be reminded of your mistakes and choices. We care so much about telling each other the truth because it is easier to hurt another person by telling the truth than it is to carry the secret with you forever.
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Post by Mason crabtree on Apr 9, 2020 18:15:04 GMT
I believe that some secrets are okay like small things that wont hurt anybody if they dont know about it, but when it comes to bigger secrets I think that people should be honest and tell somebody if they have done something. Over time secrets will destroy you because you are holding onto something that will weigh you down the rest of your life when you could get it off your chest and tell someone which is the right thing to do. Some things we can privately manage if they are small and just something that you are embarrassed about. We as humans rely a lot on trust and when someone cant tell you the complete truth we begin to lose trust in them and maybe even start to dislike them. This is why someone should always tell the complete truth.
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Post by Adna Kljaho on Apr 9, 2020 18:32:23 GMT
I think people shouldn't keep any secrets because the truth always comes out one way or another and its best just to stay honest. With your s/o, its best to not have secrets it makes you closer to one another. Secrets can destroy a person over time, by everything building up you'll feel guilty and sometimes make you break down. Yes, we can manage inside of our own minds what were not proud of, many things that you aren't proud of will make you hurt even more to talk about. We care so much because we think it'll make one another feel closer but in reality it can hurt a person more.
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Post by Taylor Mahoney on Apr 9, 2020 18:51:12 GMT
I think that secrets like maybe a white lie would be fine with keeping but overall I think that people shouldn't keep secrets and it will most likely come back to haunt them. I feel like secrets do eventually destroy people over time, especially larger secrets. The guilt builds up and usually people eventually crack or their secret gets exposed. I think we can sometimes privately manage what we're not proud of, but typically telling a close friend or family member helps us cope with it and get it off our chest. We care about telling people the whole truth because if you leave something out you feel like you're doing something wrong and it's not healthy to keep something like that hidden.
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Post by Samantha Matthews on Apr 9, 2020 18:54:30 GMT
People are allowed to keep small secrets because it is a right to them whether they should share such information or not. Big secrets should not be kept from those they are close to or those that are involved in it or it will eventually turn out badly for them. We can all manage individually what things in our past that we are not proud of and regret. We care so much about the truth because people feel vulnerable and taken advantage of by the other if the whole truth is not available to them.
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Post by Eddie Valenzuela on Apr 9, 2020 18:56:08 GMT
I think that we all have one secret that no ones knows about and we love it to keep it that way. But eventually, the truth always comes out and its not always pretty when it comes out so its up to you if you want to do it at your own free will or when the truth decides to come out on its own. Some secrets can destroy you depending how big and hurt they may have cuased they can eat you up alive and i dont think anyone wants that. I think we can privately manage things the things were not by proud of by learning from it and becoming a better person than you were yesterday. I think we care about hearing the whole truth because no one likes being lied to especially in serious talks so I think thats why were obessed by hearing the whole the truth .
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Post by Lily Sallee on Apr 9, 2020 19:01:39 GMT
I think it is okay to keep secrets because you don't have to always be a completely open book. However, when secrets start to involve other people or are hurting others, that is when it isn't okay to keep secrets to yourself. I think secrets can destroy you over time especially if you are harboring guilt over it. Keeping things to yourself may cause regret and hurt to yourself and those around you. In my opinion, it depends on the person whether or not they can manage things they aren't proud of. It also involves who you value and respect the most. We care a lot about telling others the truth because keeping secrets can cause us guilt and feel disrespectful towards others if we don't give them the entire truth.
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Post by Josue Soto Rivera on Apr 9, 2020 19:26:57 GMT
I think that there are some details that it is better to keep them for ourselves,depending on what are they about.Yes,I believe it,that is possible to manage on my own mind my mistakes or the things that can make me feel useless,and try to hide them.Well what I care about telling the truth,is how people's reaction would be,or what they will say about it.
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Post by Gillian Phillips Block 3 on Apr 9, 2020 19:28:21 GMT
I think that secrets can be seen as both a positive and a negative thing. Some secrets are used in a way to help protect others; however, others are used primarily to hurt someone else. A big secret is okay depending on the severity of it and who it effects, and the same for small secrets. It is okay to have one as long as it is kept in consideration of what and who will be effected by it. Privately managing our own secrets and things we aren't proud of is okay and is something we all do. Our thoughts are often only kept within our heads and if it isn't harmful then there shouldn't be an issue with it. I think we care so much about being truthful to one another because it makes life easier when everything is straightforward and much less complicated when there isn't an underlying scheme.
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Post by hunterl on Apr 9, 2020 20:11:47 GMT
1. Yes people should keep secrets of any size. Just because you know something or something happened, doesn't mean it's best shared.
2. No.
3. Yes.
4. So that we can be confident in trusting people, as if you find out that somebody lied once, then who knows how much they have actually lied without you realizing.
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Post by Michael deibert on Apr 9, 2020 20:18:22 GMT
I don't think you should keep secrets,they aren't good for the person keeping them or the person your not telling the truth too.It always ends out bad even if you think your protecting someone by not telling them it just breaks that trust.I do think secrets can destroy you or a relationship overtime, because with secrets you can't have that underlying trust for the other person.
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Post by Melanie Calderon on Apr 9, 2020 20:35:27 GMT
I feel like keeping secrets is a bad thing to do but if its like secrets that are personal to you than those are better kept to yourself because those are personal things to you and if you dont feel safe telling anyone those things you dont have to, but if you feel like you can really trust someone with things like that then you have the choice to but if not hen no.I think secrets over time may destroy you over time but not like minor, more major ones that may affect another human does take a toll in someone.Some may have the mentality to manage something like that but most of us usually give in and in the end have to tell someone because its that bad and they cant keep it to themselves.The truth can lead to trust in a relationship with someone or friendship and that makes you guys closer to one anther which its always said to always do.
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Post by Lyla Dollar on Apr 9, 2020 20:54:28 GMT
While secrets should be sometimes kept, there are different categories for secrets. Some big while others small. While I do agree it is important to be open with your friends, sometimes there are just some things you are not ready to open up to, which is totally understandable! As a person, we should be able to sometimes keep certain information to ourselves, because it is more comfortable to us. on the other hand, some small things should not always be kept, especially if it can affect your relationship with friends or families. Secrets are something that can ruin friendships easily. SO you should always try your best to be a trust worthy person, such as if your friend tells you a secret (that does not really affect anyone in a certain way) you should try your best to keep your mouth shut.
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