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Post by Aspen Smith on Apr 7, 2020 19:49:13 GMT
There isn’t really rules in America for dating. Everyone does it differently and it’s not strict at all. I think the only “rule” we have is America is to not cheat. I don’t think their rules are too strict though even compared to how loose ours are. They just have a system and have had it for many years.
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Post by Damaris Hernandez on Apr 7, 2020 19:55:35 GMT
Dating in the U.S is more freely and you get to decide who you wanna date. You take it slow, and get to know this person, you communicate and eventually it leads to a relationship. In Afghanistan they pick who you marry, you don't get a choice, you don't get to date, you just get married quick. I think that should change and be more freely. I think our way isn't loose at all, it's just taking things slow, at a pace. Their way is too strict, you can't even speak to each other and get married right away, so yes it's too strict.
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Post by hunterl on Apr 7, 2020 20:19:56 GMT
The US doesn't necessarily have any pre-defined rules that you must follow. I'd argue that our way is not too loose but rather Afghani is too strict; this would be as I support having more freedom to do as you wish, and this would obviously support the American side.
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Post by Annie Alfonso on Apr 8, 2020 2:06:32 GMT
I don't think that the U.S. is too loose with their laws, people have enough freedom to find who they love and go at their own pace in the relationship. In Afghanistan people don't have the right to take things slow and get to know each other if they wanted. I definitely say their too uptight with their rules.
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Post by Izzy Gibbs on Apr 8, 2020 4:20:48 GMT
America doesn't have any rules for dating beside personal beliefs within families. I believe that America's "rules" are acceptable because it relies on how comfortable one is with the other. The Afghani "rules" are too strict because they should be able to choose on their own.
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Post by Dane Swofford Block3 on Apr 8, 2020 15:50:42 GMT
The rules of dating are different for each person and just depends on what they want in a relationship. Although i do also think there can be no rules in dating. I believe that in afganistan it is too strict due to arraged marriages. These partner dont know eachother before theyre married. the us might be really loose as well. I too agree with you Eric... its crazy to me to some of the Afghanistan rules that involve relationships. Well doesn't really start off as a relationship more so of straight to mirage with barley getting to know each other. I believe there are some moral rules to dating in general though... like for males especially to be respective and be a gentleman. Such rules as always get the door for the women, an old one is if your buying food on the date don't let her see the check because it will come as rude or the women will see it as she has to be him back/uncomfortable. The main thing I would say is honesty. In today's world there is so much control over one another and loss communication due to technology. So for that, I would say America is super loose on relationships. Shoot when I went to a restaurant (when I could dine-in) I saw couples not talking and just being on there phone the whole evening. Or some people are so scared that the other person be talking to other people, so the constantly want to look at there phones... Like no bruh. NOT TODAY. There's no trust in that. But yea I believe relationships here are to complicated and crazy where the Afghanistan way is just straight to the point/ little risky.
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Post by Jaidyn Perez on Apr 8, 2020 19:30:24 GMT
In America young adults have lots of say in their relationships. The rules of dating depends on the people in the relationships. Different people like different things. I think to us dating doesn't seem too loose because its what we're used to and society shows is ok. However other countries may think we are too lenient with it. Personally, Afghan culture seems too strict because what I've seen in America but the people there may think its normal and necessary.
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Post by Matthew Rivera on Apr 8, 2020 20:27:48 GMT
There isn’t really a laws about dating in the united states but they do have customs to how people should date, like getting to know each other and being compatible. I think the way people date in Afghanistan is to strict because you can’t choose who your going to date because your parents do it for you.
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Post by Mr. Malloy on Apr 9, 2020 1:20:24 GMT
The rules of dating are different for each person and just depends on what they want in a relationship. Although i do also think there can be no rules in dating. I believe that in afganistan it is too strict due to arraged marriages. These partner dont know eachother before theyre married. the us might be really loose as well. I saw couples not talking and just being on there phone the whole evening. Or some people are so scared that the other person be talking to other people, so the constantly want to look at there phones... Like no bruh. NOT TODAY. There's no trust in that. But yea I believe relationships here are to complicated and crazy where the Afghanistan way is just straight to the point/ little risky. I agree with you both, especially in terms of trust. Here in current American society, this seems to be the biggest issue. WIth social media and instanteous technology, trust has become almost a thing of the past, and many have become more and more insecure as a result. I wonder if that's one thing Afghanistan has over the US... Do you think social media is as prevalent there as it is here, which in turn leads to trust issues...?
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Post by Francis Kernan on Apr 9, 2020 3:19:16 GMT
In America, there a virtually no rules surrounding dating (Although some people apparently wish that wasn't the case for god knows what reason). I feel neither is "too strict" nor "too loose" simply just how two different cultures view how relationships should be. To us, their way might seem unnecessarily strict because most of us grew up with the concept of finding a partner in a much less constrictive set of circumstances but in their culture, I'm sure our loose way of managing such ways would seem just as abstract.
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Post by Carson Woodhouse on Apr 9, 2020 15:31:15 GMT
Dating in the U.S. is a lot different compared to dating in Afghanistan. Dating in the U.S. can also be affected by the parents:depending on the ages of the two people dating. But overall, dating in the U.S. is fairly loose and free. As a young person, I can take someone out, go to their house, come to my house, etc... Older people can do the same. Their aren't any restrictions on dating in the U.S. In the U.S. you date to get to know someone so you know if you want to have a future with them or not. Dating in Afghanistan is very rare because most marriages are arranged by the parents. Women can not go out without a male relative or a husband.
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Post by Josue Soto Rivera on Apr 9, 2020 17:13:13 GMT
Well,in my opinion, I think we do not have any rules for Dating in U.S,and the only important thing is to be respectful with the person you are dating.And if we compare it to Afhganistan,there is different,because you cannot see her face or talk to her,and the ladies always cover their faces,and cannot express their thoughts.
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Post by Lindsay Garcia on Apr 12, 2020 21:32:22 GMT
I don't believe there are rules in the u.s for dating it is usually based of how they are raised and what they believe and what they don't believe, I don't think our way is too loose. I think Afghani is strict but they usually see it normal since they are used to them and like we are used to the rules here since it's normal for us.
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Post by Dane Swofford on Apr 13, 2020 3:41:35 GMT
I think it depends on what the secret is… I believe all secrets are somewhat personal but there’s different levels on what that could mean to any one of us. People always have that excuse of keeping a secret to protect someone else from the truth but you can’t keep something buried forever. The truth will always come out one way or another. Again depending on the secret of course I believe if it’s “deep”/ “serious” then it will eat you inside out overtime. I think we can privately manage what we are not proud of but some people might think that too is keeping a secret. I think we care so much on telling one another the truth/the whole truth because it’s about trust. And it’s really hard in today’s society to find someone to share that trust. Because again I think secrets are personal and if you want to tell someone, then they must mean a lot to you for you to trust them.
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Post by Shawn Hammond Block:3 on Apr 16, 2020 16:39:34 GMT
The rules for dating in America is to talk to each other a lot and be able to get to know each other and be able to choose what you want to be with. For the afghani culture, I think that America it is in a "good level" not too strict but not too loose for the fact that everything depends in how your parents think or react in those situations. I believe that the afghani culture its too strict for the fact that you need to know the person that you will be spending your good times and your bad times until you died.
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